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It's very hard for some blacks to want to assume that they do have racist tendencies within themselves. They'd rather prefer putting it off as being a 'white man's thing', but the opposite is far true.
Why is it that some Blacks still find it hard letting go of the racial tensions and actions of the past and often find it hard saying yes to such things as interracial relationships?
Why is it that some Blacks still find it hard letting go of the racial tensions and actions of the past and often find it hard saying yes to such things as interracial relationships?
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 1:48 PMAh, people have all kinds of prejudices and bias. There's no end to it, some people hate cats or dogs. It's a part of being human. The problem occurs when racism becomes institutionalized in terms of offering less opportunity to one group or another.
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Wed, March 5, 2008 - 2:51 PMMy best friends just went through the issue of whether or not to introduce the white New Englander partner to the black father of the racially mixed partner, because of their fear that the dad would just flip. (He's over 70).
I was hoping I would see this end in my lifetime. Anyone who spent five mintues with either of these guys would know that they are human angels. I am amazed that they still carry the fear of the parental units' and their disapproval.
Find someone of another race/gender/nationality and hug them today!
LOVE TO ALL
dave
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Tue, March 18, 2008 - 12:21 PMI think it's wasted energy. Everyone has met people who date across racial lines for the wrong reasons. Shaking a finger at them or giving them a dirty look won't make them stop or change their minds. I think the best thing to do is to use that energy developing yourself.
That being said, there are cultural differences between groups of people, and recognizing those is not really racist.
In terms of letting go of racial tension, why is the onus on Black folks? I think we are some of the most accepting people in the world. -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:21 PMwell this society we live in is racist,sexist,and homophobic that being said it's a pretty tired subject interracial relationships for me,love is love in which ever configuration in comes in.with all due respect black people are not the most accepting people in the world.as i understand the evil of racisim in it's disguises,african americans can be some of the most narrow minded people one could meet.we've been indoctrinated with not only christianity,but capitalist and materialistic thinking we have excepted willingly.we don't except differences in one another very well because we use some else's rules.i wish black people would finally learn to stop hateing themselves and move on with the business that is life -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Fri, June 27, 2008 - 1:15 PMI just ran across an article from some lad...hmmm... Cane...something... i'll have to do a browser history search. It was this bloggers response to Kieth Boykins article about black men who primarily date white men.
As I am getting older i only have a problem with one thing about dating outside ones race...
It's The guys who tell me "i don't really like black men.... but i like you"
I had a mixed guy say this to me very recently and i didn't say anything back. He was Black and Latin and maybe some brand of white. It was ridiculous. He went on, unsolicited, to tell me "It's not that I think they are ugly." I already thought he was douche... he need not further display his douchness.
He continued... "i just have nothing in common with them"
and the funny part is...quite honestly i don't date black men , but not out of direct choice.. i find my own men extremely attractive... i don't have any prefrences... I don't actually make connections easily period but surely If I have something you in terms of culture, music and ideas... I'll gravitate towards you and find you attractive...as i get older I "protect" myself from wasting someones time and mine (as i have done so many times before) by going for Chemistry rather than attraction and black men can bore me. White guys too... BUT in no way would i tell someone that... as if I am superior and you are special, out of group i generally disregard. It's arrogant. Some people just don't mix...chemisry is chemistry it happens.
Now take all those thems and add in "white man as a trophy" then i have a problem but it's not my life so I can't get so bent out shape about someones dating choices. The guy who wrote the article I started out talking about, mentioned Black men are acting like black women.... black women would rather their black men be with white women though than be gay. I don't agree with that.
If a black man is not attracted to me because I am "easy" and the white man is harder and a card to an in. I can't fault him because it is True... in reality... got a white man... he's probably paying for your shit... or you can pay for your own..WELL. Two Professional Black men... haven't seen to much of that. I do agree that you more likely will see a man of certain financial and education stature with a white guy... because the dating pool gets smaller.
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Fri, June 27, 2008 - 1:29 PMand what Jombi said is RIGHT on target.
In the past few months i have spent much time around my southern bred family member ...two of which are closeted homosexuals.... very christian and self loathing and I can not for the life of me understand it.
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Sun, September 14, 2008 - 9:14 PMwill it all depends some whites refer us as minority instead of majority. Most of my relationsships have been interracial I myself even though I black my grandmother was mixed and had a baby by a hatian black man so.It doesnt really matter if you keep a strong mind frame that me in my opionon will not talerate the opression by the white man. and the slave mentality tht we are ugly becuse our nose is big.We will be content with ourselves.and love our selves. Some times blacks feel that they need to put them selves in a slave mentality because of the pressure. -
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Sun, September 14, 2008 - 9:16 PMoh and one more thing, Majority of interracial relation ships are black men with another race. -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Mon, January 12, 2009 - 8:27 PM
People need to stop selling out and trying to white... -
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Fri, January 16, 2009 - 11:56 AMThey need to stop saying stupid shyt like "trying to be white" too....... -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Fri, January 16, 2009 - 4:10 PM
to each-their-own, but brothers been selling out their sisters for far to long - it's conditioned just like everything else in this country
Black cops etc...
I have a social perspective and a personal one ...this is my social position -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Sat, January 17, 2009 - 3:55 PMWhat is a white man scared of that his own women isn't -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Sat, January 17, 2009 - 8:23 PM
And some of the MOST successful (and beneficial for him) conditioning that the 'white man' has perpetrated is the falsity of RACE to begin with.
So go rite on buying into it. Its part of what keeps him in 'power'.
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Sun, January 18, 2009 - 8:56 PM
It's called melanin...and they lost theirs, we know who we are... the ones bobbing their heads to the beat and on the dancefloor with soul, poetry in motion dominating the NFL and the NBA. (they're only OK with us if were entertaining them.)
the ones on Cops "what ya gonna do when they come for you"
this is not about your personal choices IMO as long as she's down, but about culture and cultivation and what has been done and being done to destroy the family structure... trying to assimilate into their Seth culture
Brothers need to Man Up
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Sun, January 18, 2009 - 8:58 PM>"What is a white man scared of that his own women isn't "<
That big voluptuous juicy Mmmmm body and all that ***! -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Sun, January 18, 2009 - 9:39 PMWhats seth culture? -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Sun, January 18, 2009 - 9:46 PMWe just need to be happy that we have a black president and mlk tomorrow god bless -
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Mon, January 19, 2009 - 10:20 AM
Obama's a wonderful stepping stone, but he hasn't addressed or said nothing about our issues...we have to do this for ourselves
that's why these family issues are so important, and our Unity - and I'm sorry if these white girl are not down they need to step aside
if others could just see the numbers of our broken homes, single parenthood, legal injustices, number of men in prison vs. going to college - it's a Black Holocaust and everyone walking around her like it's normal - none of those so called Superstars are saying anything - they just out getting them some white chicks and gonna end up like O.J.
There's a a Black Holocaust going on world wide
Half of all Black men in their 20s are unemployed, and there are more young black men in prison than in college.
60 million Black people dying in Africa, i guess it's just not PC enough for America to help
U.N. says 12 million Black people in Africa are on 'brink of starvation'
Jews are getting reparations from your tax money - yet we build this country and can't even get a job
if a Meteorite was headed for the earth and we were was told it would hit a city killing 2 million people the whole world would be in panic, US forces would be going to the rescue...200,000 killed in the Tsunami and two ex-presidents are asking for money. millions are being sent.
Oh but I don't see color ....
LA has basically been over taken by gangs which start in prison, "Oh, those are just those are bad kids" yet this is spreading in every town USA
Oakland averages a 100 of murders a year by young black teenage kids, Oaktown is not that big
if this was any other community they would have declared Marshall law...they don't value a black mans life.
U.N. Says AIDS Could Kill 80 Million Africans by 2025
More Than 25 Million Have Already Been Infected (injected) With HIV
Have we really learned and studied Africans
white man will tell you his lies
OUR MISSION IS TO EDUCATE ALL PEOPLE.
Part of our education must be to free ourselves of the false paradigms and self-serving Westerners social constraints
that we have ALL fallen victim to. I believe that we all have been a victim of these lies not just Africans
Part of this fiction is that Westerns think they own history - and teach that they have been the harbingers of civilization since time immemorial, and that Blacks and other people of color have been their subordinates throughout history. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
We believe that the falsification of history by Western scientists (Scientism) and scholars has remained unchallenged for far too long.
And we certainly will not tolerate it here. So, let’s get it on! .
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Public Enemy # 1
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Mon, January 19, 2009 - 10:24 AM
"Most whites have calcified pineal glands
apparently thwarting their production of Melatonin"
"Why did Afrikans view the European as a child of God, but the Europeans viewed the Afrikan as a soulless savage? Because of "melatonin,"
Soul: it's all in the Melanin baby!
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Mon, January 19, 2009 - 10:34 AM">Whats seth culture?"<
Seth was the original Satan...see the bible is plagiarized from our people, all the people in the bible were black, Westerns took our teachings and history and turned it into theirs but messed it all up, left out the important stuff that they really didn't understand, and them not really knowing what to do with the rest - so many lies.
they try to hide it ... knocking off the nubian nose of the sphinx etc
here this might help See Egypt was Black and called Kemet (Kmt)
SEBEK (Sphere 8) Divine Intellect Deception and the fight with Heru (who we know as Jesus)
My Blog
people.tribe.net/chaz/blog...00d50726dd
SEBEK (Set/Satan) They also stole this story for star wars - they steal our stuff and don't give us credit and try to make it seem like we were intellectually inferior - when really we civilized them and taught them everything.
They lie and fear black man is God
The 8th faculty on the Tree of Life represents Sebek (Set, Satan, Sebek, Darth Vader/Sith) or the intellect faculty. Most people in Western society can only achieve Sebek. Intellect for the mere sake of intellect does not serve the purpose of the indwelling divinity but of Set.
Sebek is an idea or belief based on programming (Scientism/Materialism). Sebek is only a correctly applied faculty in commune with Tehuti (3rd Sphere) the omniscient intUitive faculty. sebek is based on beliefs and can open or close the way to truth.
Mr. Yakub (Sebek) and the Making of the Devil
Yakub represents the left hemisphere of the brain and its related mental activities.
Mr. Yakub was a "White big headed scientist," meaning he symbolized extreme left-brained arrogance, vanity and unrelenting pride.
Mr. Yakub has been used symbolic to represent that making of White people
Note: Physical white people are not any more or less evil than physical Black people. Any person of any skin color can become devilish by the thoughts, emotions, feelings and actions they indulge.
Now the alleged making of the devil... it refers to the ego supplanting the former rule or predominance of the right brain hemisphere. The individual "I" and sense of separateness is a grafted "add on to the original human consciousness. This puny little ego -- created by maya, separate-ness and "tricknology" (i.e. "Yakub) is the real devil (enemy, adversary) and is symbolized by the White man because of our past.
Yakub is the modern version of the trickster gods that have been depicted throughout the world: Coyote, Set, Satan, Sebek, Hanuman, Mescalito, Kweku Ansi, etc. They are usually stylised as canines, so
White people "cave men" and "cavey." It refers to underground (subconscious) influences that operate in the dark (ignorance).
Yakub represents the left hemisphere of the brain and its related mental activities. He had "an 8 ounce brain" because the left brain corresponds to the 8th sphere of the Tree of Life.
Seven and a half breaths per minute induce trance.
This is all symbolic wisdom
We are constantly making the devil whenever we feed and nourish our lower selves and animal appetites. When we allow our egos to rule, instead of bringing our egos into submission to the indwelling divinity. This is the fight between Ausar (Osiris) Set. (Luke Skywalker and Dark Vader)
Heru (the Son) is key to the Ausarian (the father- Divine Intelligence) resurrection metaphor, wherein he is seen as the son (Sun), the hero figure, who reclaims his father's throne which has been usurped by Ausar's evil brother Set. Heru re-establishes the kingdom of God both within and without, by aligning his will, Man's free will, with God's will.
*A sense of being a separate ego is the fundamental illusion that distorts our perception of "reality"
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Re: Blacks vs. Interracial Relationships
Mon, January 19, 2009 - 10:42 AM
What is Seth Culture?
I believe that moving beyond our "animal" nature is part of our divine spiritual cultivation and purpose, now that does not mean we don't get down (Smiles), in fact even more so, its the divine ecstasy of joining of our souls with "God" Goddessing our inner spiritual orgasm" well beyond any fleeting animal lust or so called instincts for Seth women.
and these white women are just letting it hang all out - temping our brothers, but it's a LIE
Most have having sex with SETH, Trickology, Crafty seductions, dysfunctional emotional games, and tactics, Men spilling the love juice all around - it makes them cRaZy! - they need to study the Arts- (Men should only come twice a month) they'll do or say anything to get up your skirt or down your pants, and once they do they're on to the next one, Vampires really.
Men are not born Dogs...they are trained and taught by SETH and this western culture
I say the same conditioning that goes in to Branding a Coca Cola product goes into the Conditioning of what we think of Sex and how our relationships are to be ...I can really only speak of this country, but it’s conditioned, into a highly ego driven on desire and consumerism with immediate gratification. "Girls gone wild"
Social conditioning and programming products of an age where people are sex addicts …and unfullfied people are not taken responsibility, "baby daddy" etc
We’re all a victim of sensationalism, just turn on the T.V. (I can't believe whats on there now a days) or other media outlets; Music, Fashion, etc.
I say if it makes you happy do that and be free ….I’m not trying to tell others what's Right and Wrong we have to deserve for ourselves or from a spiritual teacher, All I'm saying is there is a Healthy, Wholesome, Harmonic way
responsibility; emotionally, physically, and mentally ...
"Children are our are future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be
Everybody searching for a hero
People need someone to look up to
I never found anyone who fulfill my needs
A lonely place to be
So I learned to depend on [GOD] - our Inner Divine Intelligence]
The Greatest Love of All (lyrics)
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